There is just something wonderful about a good weekend at home. Better when everyone is healthy and happy, but still good to be home. A collection of events transpired to make this a stay-at-home weekend. First, hubby had to work so that forced it, second 5 of the 6 of us are sick so that sealed the deal (you could say 6 of the 7 if you count our "ROOMIE" - my sister Michelle - yes she lives with us now, but that is a whole story in itself that deserves its own post). Anyway, with 2 on antibiotics and 3 (or 4) on over the counters to counteract the coughing, hacking, dripping yuk-yuk we decided to lay low. I could complain about being the healthy one and having to tend to everyones needs with a smiling face as they cover me with germs and goo, but it was kinda nice having them all in a sickly state, a break from the usual "make me feel like I live in a tornado" routine. I provided meds and food and drink to keep them happy all while I organized! It was kinda fun (for me anyway). Question is - who is going to take care of me and all the healthy ones when I am the sick one next week?
Part 1: Friday we hit the Dr. offices to jump start the stay-cay, Ken to the general Dr. and I to the pediatrician. Don't you just love Dr. offices? Waiting in rooms with the sick and healthy, old and young sitting in chairs in awkward silence... Having kids helps with conversation a bit. I always get a lot of "how cutes" and "how old is he/she," but what I really love is when I have all 4 with me and I get the stare, or the "wow, you are a busy mom" or "boy, your hands are full" (duh)! I think I could write a book of all the things people say to the mother's of 4 children, for a few examples go here. You would think I have 13! Seriously, it's crazy! As the girls and I waited we made conversation with a young grandmother who was there with her daughter and granddaughter. She was talking baby with Miss Paige and it came up that I have 2 boys as well.....That is what triggered it - the STARE... the you have got to be kidding me...what do I say...holy cow STARE! Then it came "you are a busy mommy!" Ummmm, yep! - Really, it doesn't bother me at all. It actually cracks me up! I couldn't wait to get on the phone with my mom and tell her to put up a tally mark - I got another one! Up until this one, I liked to think that I got the "STARE" because of my youthful beauty and being that I am so well put together most days, but she burst my bubble. I was not put together at all - sweats, no makeup, and nasty - needs to be cut and dyed hair. (Dang - I'm not as cute and young as I thought...maybe I do look CrAzY!) Lesson learned: make a hair appt. in the morning!
2 comments:
I'll come take care of you and the little ones ... just let me know when the bug travels to the Mama of 4!
Brenda... You rock as a mom and I give you kudos for taking care of all our kids (including my brother which I know can be the biggest baby of them all when he is sick)... I love you and I think you are gorgeous all made up or not.
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